Guidelines For Giving Ultimatums To An Alcoholic Or Addict

I’m going to make this really short and sweet. Don’t ever give an ultimatum unless you are really serious about following through. An alcoholic or drug addict will walk all over you if you back down from the conditions  you have set before them. This must be a planned event.  It shouldn’t  be done out […]


The Power of Persistence in Reinforcing Boundaries With Alcoholics

You cannot back down once you begin to change how you interact with alcoholics. Consistency and persistence are very crucial to your success. In other words- don’t give up no matter how much resistance you may have to contend with in relation to the boundaries you’ve set.

Imagine yourself and the boundary as being a large […]