http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2010/06/trust-god-no-matter-what/ Help for people affected by alcoholics Tue, 07 Feb 2012 22:41:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2010/06/trust-god-no-matter-what/comment-page-1/#comment-22767 linda Thu, 12 Jan 2012 01:16:32 +0000 http://alcoholicsfriend.com/?p=688#comment-22767 I am finding a lot of resentment because my husband has stopped drinking again and he goes to alot of meetings so he says but his attitude is still not too good...I am trying to talk to him alone and with a counselor friend but he really does not want to talk honestly about anything that he has done because of his drinking which has and still is affecting our marriage....we are and have been separated for a year now and he says he wants to get back together but just move on is his attitude...but I think we have to talk or else nothing will ever change.....he had stopped drinking for 12 years and was really into AA but started drinking again 10 years ago. My feeling is he doesn't want to do the work or take the time or go back...he wants to get on with his life...but I have hung in there and now I just have to suck it up if we are going to get back together...am I being unrealistic that someday he might understand where I am coming from? also,he had an affair which is another real big issue..any advice would be good at this point I am finding a lot of resentment because my husband has stopped drinking again and he goes to alot of meetings so he says but his attitude is still not too good…I am trying to talk to him alone and with
a counselor friend but he really does not want to talk honestly about anything that he has done because of his drinking which has and still is affecting our marriage….we are and have been separated for a year now and he says he wants to get back together but just move on is his attitude…but I think we have to talk or else nothing will ever change…..he had stopped drinking for 12 years and was really into AA but started drinking again 10 years ago. My feeling is he doesn’t want to do the work or take the time or go back…he wants to get on with his life…but I have hung in there and now I just have to suck it up if we are going to get back together…am I being unrealistic that someday he might understand where I am coming from? also,he had an affair which is another real big issue..any advice would be good at this point

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