Comments on: Alcoholism-What is Your Biggest Fear? http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2010/06/alcoholism-biggest-fear/ Help for people affected by alcoholics Fri, 18 May 2012 20:50:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Robin http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2010/06/alcoholism-biggest-fear/comment-page-1/#comment-992 Robin Mon, 30 Aug 2010 15:43:24 +0000 http://alcoholicsfriend.com/?p=681#comment-992 My fear was our marriage would end, and it has ended. I wanted to "rescue" him. He was once arrested for being "drunk in public" while walking down a busy street in the middle of the road. I like an idiot sat at the jail the next morning to take him home. Another time he went with a friend to a bar. The friend went home, left him there. At 2:00 am I went looking for him around the neighborhood only to find him walking down the street with his face bashed in. I love him, always will, but I resent him and his alcoholism. My fear was our marriage would end, and it has ended. I wanted to “rescue” him. He was once arrested for being “drunk in public” while walking down a busy street in the middle of the road. I like an idiot sat at the jail the next morning to take him home.

Another time he went with a friend to a bar. The friend went home, left him there. At 2:00 am I went looking for him around the neighborhood only to find him walking down the street with his face bashed in.

I love him, always will, but I resent him and his alcoholism.

]]> By: Mary http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2010/06/alcoholism-biggest-fear/comment-page-1/#comment-617 Mary Tue, 27 Jul 2010 01:27:28 +0000 http://alcoholicsfriend.com/?p=681#comment-617 Alys, my mom got better and quit drinking for over twenty five years. Pray for her! Alys, my mom got better and quit drinking for over twenty five years. Pray for her!

]]> By: Alys http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2010/06/alcoholism-biggest-fear/comment-page-1/#comment-612 Alys Mon, 26 Jul 2010 21:01:30 +0000 http://alcoholicsfriend.com/?p=681#comment-612 My biggest fear over my mum's alcoholism is that she is killing herself and firtcould by before my 16th birthday through drinking and the other illnesses she has. I just want to say good night or give her a hug without the thought that it could be the last time i see her. I wantto be able to go to my friends houses without being worried that may not be there when i go home. I want to be able to have friends over and not have to worry about her scaring them off or embarrasing me by falling over. I want her to be there when i get married and to see her first grandchild all the things you want your mum to be there to see, to take a boyfriend home to meet her have her look disaproving and saying nice try. Through all the arguments i still love her she is still my mum and i don't want to see her killing herself. My biggest fear over my mum’s alcoholism is that she is killing herself and firtcould by before my 16th birthday through drinking and the other illnesses she has. I just want to say good night or give her a hug without the thought that it could be the last time i see her. I wantto be able to go to my friends houses without being worried that may not be there when i go home. I want to be able to have friends over and not have to worry about her scaring them off or embarrasing me by falling over. I want her to be there when i get married and to see her first grandchild all the things you want your mum to be there to see, to take a boyfriend home to meet her have her look disaproving and saying nice try. Through all the arguments i still love her she is still my mum and i don’t want to see her killing herself.

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