Comments on: Alcoholics Personality Traits-Coping with anger disorders http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2009/09/alcoholics-personality-traits-coping-with-anger-disorders/ Help for people affected by alcoholics Tue, 07 Feb 2012 22:41:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Caitlyn http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2009/09/alcoholics-personality-traits-coping-with-anger-disorders/comment-page-1/#comment-20759 Caitlyn Wed, 14 Dec 2011 05:04:22 +0000 http://alcoholicsfriend.com/?p=36#comment-20759 Experience: There are different degrees of an angry alcoholic. The kind you speak of is the kind you definately want to run away from for good. No one should put up with a violent angry alcoholic. Unreasonable on every level, drunk or sober. A safe house for yourself and other members inside that house under attack is the only situation possible. Sorry to hear yours is so bad, or was so bad because you walked, or rather, ran away from it. There is plenty to be gained from this site; it just needs to be tweaked for each browser's individual experience and circumstance. Hope you are getting the assistance it sounds like you need. Others here may be able to offer advice for the red hot angry alcoholic. Experience:
There are different degrees of an angry alcoholic. The kind you speak of is the kind you definately want to run away from for good. No one should put up with a violent angry alcoholic. Unreasonable on every level, drunk or sober. A safe house for yourself and other members inside that house under attack is the only situation possible.
Sorry to hear yours is so bad, or was so bad because you walked, or rather, ran away from it. There is plenty to be gained from this site; it just needs to be tweaked for each browser’s individual experience and circumstance.
Hope you are getting the assistance it sounds like you need. Others here may be able to offer advice for the red hot angry alcoholic.

]]> By: Experience http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2009/09/alcoholics-personality-traits-coping-with-anger-disorders/comment-page-1/#comment-20754 Experience Wed, 14 Dec 2011 03:50:50 +0000 http://alcoholicsfriend.com/?p=36#comment-20754 It seems as though nobody here has really dealt with an angry alcoholic. It you did, you would know that you can't simply go into another room, or "across the street ". They seek you out to belittle and humiliate. They need a target. ...and keeping a happy mood or attitude to diffuse the anger is the dumbest response I have ever heard. Lucky you that you have never been in the situation of dealing with an angry alcoholic, but you are being careless with giving advise. The only answer is to get out. Until the angry alcoholic gets into a support program to stop drinking, that house is not safe. It seems as though nobody here has really dealt with an angry alcoholic. It you did, you would know that you can’t simply go into another room, or “across the street “. They seek you out to belittle and humiliate. They need a target.
…and keeping a happy mood or attitude to diffuse the anger is the dumbest response I have ever heard. Lucky you that you have never been in the situation of dealing with an angry alcoholic, but you are being careless with giving advise.
The only answer is to get out. Until the angry alcoholic gets into a support program to stop drinking, that house is not safe.

]]> By: Caitlyn http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2009/09/alcoholics-personality-traits-coping-with-anger-disorders/comment-page-1/#comment-20092 Caitlyn Sun, 04 Dec 2011 23:49:02 +0000 http://alcoholicsfriend.com/?p=36#comment-20092 Hope this isn't too late a reply for you. I've only just discovered this website recently as I was searching for answers for my alcoholic 'amazing man'. Seems these alcoholics are amazing when they are sober, but not so when intoxicated. A real shame for sure. Anyway, back to your quest, when your amazing woman is in a bad angry mood for days, disassociate from their negativity; diffuse the anger by staying upbeat yourself and appearing unaffected, and be your happy self around her, completely ignoring her foul mood. You may just help to lift her anger off herself and your shared space. Maybe some soothing words or a hug or shoulder rub will help to lift the mood away. This is what I do. It works for me; for us. Hope this isn’t too late a reply for you. I’ve only just discovered this website recently as I was searching for answers for my alcoholic ‘amazing man’. Seems these alcoholics are amazing when they are sober, but not so when intoxicated. A real shame for sure.

Anyway, back to your quest, when your amazing woman is in a bad angry mood for days, disassociate from their negativity; diffuse the anger by staying upbeat yourself and appearing unaffected, and be your happy self around her, completely ignoring her foul mood. You may just help to lift her anger off herself and your shared space. Maybe some soothing words or a hug or shoulder rub will help to lift the mood away. This is what I do. It works for me; for us.

]]> By: paul http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2009/09/alcoholics-personality-traits-coping-with-anger-disorders/comment-page-1/#comment-5846 paul Wed, 30 Mar 2011 14:10:38 +0000 http://alcoholicsfriend.com/?p=36#comment-5846 hi........i need help dealing with a woman that is amazing in almost eveyway.......except when she drinks.....sometimes a silly unimportant thing triggers anger that takes days to fade... hi……..i need help dealing with a woman that is amazing in almost eveyway…….except when she drinks…..sometimes a silly unimportant thing triggers anger that takes days to fade…

]]> By: cassdo http://alcoholicsfriend.com/2009/09/alcoholics-personality-traits-coping-with-anger-disorders/comment-page-1/#comment-3006 cassdo Sun, 12 Dec 2010 09:37:43 +0000 http://alcoholicsfriend.com/?p=36#comment-3006 What are those things social workers should never say to an angry alcoholic in order to avoid challenging behavior? What are those things social workers should never say to an angry alcoholic in order to avoid challenging behavior?

]]>